NPO worker’s self-narrative ~ Bereaved mother’s grief adjustment and transformation

Abstract

This paper presents the life story of the researcher from the grief of losing a child and the process of adjustment to transformation, and turning the little love into the big love to establish a non-profit organization in a self-narrative way. Through retrospective narrative, from the short and unwarned departure of Aiko, and the rapid deterioration of Aiko’s condition during the hospitalization period, the researcher and his family members suffered from physical and mental torture and wanted to escape, as well as after the death of Aiko. The process of grief and how to adjust the process and transformation of grief. At the same time, narrative researchers accidentally devote themselves to social work, seeing the ineffectiveness and helplessness of many disadvantaged groups, and they have expectations and enthusiasm for this field of social work. This arduous journey of life with mixed flavors is expected to provide a suitable reference for future researchers. With all the opportunities brought together, the promise of dreams, and the support of partner social workers working with the Social Bureau, and the support of Section Chief Lai Jiongming, in addition, it was also co-founded by some like-minded enthusiasts, "Corporate Legal Person Tainan New Generation "Social Welfare Care Association" was born in 2008. It is hoped that many non-profit organizations will take children as the core, family as the center, and community as the foundation, and do their best to care for and support disadvantaged children and families; the research results put forward the following suggestions for parents and practical work for bereaved (female) children The authors and future research are used as references:

1. Establish a grieving support group for parents who lost their children (female).
2. Parents who lost their children have the strength to bear the pain of losing their children.
3. Find a new connection between yourself and the dead child.
4. Transform the power that death binds to life.
5. Make parents who have lost their children (female) the courage to continue to walk out of their own lives. In this way, we establish welfare care for the society and create a new hope for Taiwan, so that the beacon will always shine on the people of Fuhui!